Gift giving in our family is contained. We no longer draw names with the Schmuker family and give everyone in my family gifts. So for me that just leaves Steve and Heidi. Heidi is pretty easy, I know what she likes and she usually has an email list of her wants. The last couple of years that she is in college, the list has really shrunk even though some of the gift prices have risen. Steve is much harder to buy for, he really doesn't need much and without a hobby ideas are difficult. Christmas eve, we all roll dice and decide who goes first. After that we take turns opening our gifts to each other.